We created ourselves to spesifically fit our environment. Each and every angle is perfectly angled to meet with the degree that everyone has set.
We somehow have to lie to ourselves so that we can fit in. But why? Listening to that one speech for TED on youtube had me thinking that all we need is not to fit in the mould itself but rather free yourself and be yourself.
Though it may be hard. People will always be people, they would claim that they know you, but deep down, you will always know the fact that only you know yourself.